When I first sat down to write today, I didn’t really know what I was going to write about but my mind kept drifting off toward Homer Hickam Jr. and the power of dreams. So I guess I’m meant to write about that.
Homer Hickam is the main subject of a movie entitled October Sky, which in turn was based on Homer’s memoir Rocket Boys. Basically, it’s about his life growing up in a small mining town in West Virginia and his dreams about, and devotion to, rocketry.
It was a time when the notion of space flight was a fanciful one, especially for those who made their living in a coal mine. In spite of that, the impact of hearing and reading about Sputnik, the first artificial satellite launched into space, was enough to inform Homer, from somewhere deep within him, that he had found his purpose.
Homer Hickam is a lucky guy. I say that because I rather think that many of us flounder around a bit when it comes to being really sure of our purpose. And, I suspect that unlike Homer, our purpose does not present itself in such a blindingly obvious way. Well, at least that’s the way it is for me.
But dreams are important. They’re important because they have a way of leading us to our purpose and each dream realized, each purpose fulfilled, makes a difference to a life, to a community, and even to the world. And, I can’t think about that without thinking about Terry Fox.
Terry Fox had a dream. He dreamed about a cure for cancer. He believed in his dream so much that he ran over three thousand miles on an artificial leg to raise funds for cancer research. Even though Terry didn’t finish his run, he fulfilled his purpose and his dream lives on, long after his death. That’s what dreams can do…outlive us. There’s something quite wondrous about that.
Some might think that dreaming has little to do with reality, but dreams become reality if we do the work. And, I think there are two conditions that make the conversion of dream to reality possible:
One is, we have to want it badly enough to do what it takes to make it real
The Road to fulfillment is always fraught with challenge. If a dream is worth it, it is also worth fighting for. Other people may get in the way. Fear can put us in our own way but, if we want it badly enough, none of that matters in the end.
And secondly, we have to make sure that the dream is really ours and not something, someone else wants for us.
Sometimes, when we are trying to figure out our purpose or find a dream we can make our own, we can slip into someone else’s view of what it looks like. Sometimes this can be a convenient way of getting on with our lives. Someone else’s dream though, no matter how magnificent it might be, is often like a suit of clothes that doesn’t quite fit and isn’t as comfortable as we’d like, no matter how good it might look on us.
Leadership is about dreaming too. After all, if leadership were about maintaining the status quo, we wouldn’t need it. We’d only need management. So dreams are frequently the beginning of new adventures and are about the pursuit of something that calls to us from within and makes us want to change, or be, something else or something more.
Dreams help us define our purpose. At least that’s how it was for Homer Hickam Jr. and Terry Fox. What do you think?